Tuesday, January 21, 2014

Blogging BUM

Yeah that's me! A blogging bum. It's not that I don't want to write everyday on my beautifully designed blog, it's just that...I constantly find myself in front of the TV or Kindle with chips and occasionally ice cream when I have a chance to breathe.
That was me New Years Eve of the year before last...lol It's just me goofing around. And now that I'm looking at it, I love my HARR! I need to get the hook up from my hair stylist again, and get me some crazy layers again! 
No wedding planning has been going on, and I think I'm pretty much over the whole idea of a wedding at this point. I have crazy requests from my crazy family every now and then. Which gives me less and less motivation. Not to mention crazy expectations. 
A few of my friends have recently gotten engaged during the holidays and are down right putting me to shame as a bride...lol They already have their wedding date set, venues booked, wedding dress paid for, engagement photos shot, and save the dates are en route. Which leaves me asking myself, and mostly my engaged friends...What the Heck MAN!! Chill out, and take a chill chair. Really?!! You just got engaged like a hot minute ago, and now I'm 6 months behind in my planning. 
I can't deal! I love the idea of wedding planning, but not the idea of actually doing the planning. I use to just like the idea of the engagement ring, but just not the wedding part. 
LOL Seriously, right now I'm kind of regretting the name I chose for my blog...lol I don't want to be known as a bride forever...what do I do? Any suggestions plurrrrlease! Plus sometimes my blog gets over looked by other blogger because of my name. I guess since a majority of bloggers are already married or not interested in marrying, I get overlooked :( 


  1. Stephanie @ Diary of a DebutanJanuary 21, 2014 at 6:33 PM

    There's nothing wrong with taking your blog name and running with it, bride or not! I love it.... even after you do get married, you'll still be a newlywed! Regardless, it's all about making sure you're writing about what interests you, so just do you. Keep us posted! :)

    Diary of a Debutante

  2. its ok im not married or even engaged so im not "normal" i feel hahaha!

  3. Thanks Stephanie!! I really appreciate the encouragement! I will def keep you posted! Thank you so much for stopping by and dropping me a line!

    xoxo, Jess

  4. Hi Ellen,
    I feel like the name can be annoying to those who aren't interested, and judge my whole blog. The name kind of puts me in the bridal category...blah but thanks. And you are normal lol Thank you for leaving me some feedback :)

    xoxo, Jess


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